i would watch the phantom of the opera a thousand times if anyone is willing to buy me tickets to go watch.. it's been a reallie good musical.. something i wld sae worth me waiting for more than a decade long.. though christine was a bit short.. but her voice makes up for it.. love the phantom best.. maybe that's y he is the lead of the show.. his vocals was very powerful.. and carried emotions in them.. different scenes with voices to depict different feelings.. could literally feel my hair stand while they were singing.. raoul wasnt that handsome though.. hahah but anyhow.. i would rate the show a 9.5/10 coz its reallie goooooooooooooood.... I LOVE IT!
p.s. will anyone buy me another ticket pls? heeeee
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i take that part abt gettin the degree back.. hhaa.. before i get drowned with reasons y i shld go do a degree rite now.. hahah.. i dunno how to explain this.. but to me.. its reallie juz a thing in the past.. i mean.. i alreadie put it behind me.. ok? haha..
well.. elaine is back in singapore.. though i haven reallie missed her as much as sy since i juz saw her in march.. but it feels great that she is back.. i love havin the feelin of frenz around me.. esp now tt im tryin to learn to treasure my life n the pple ard me..
if i nv had the chance to tell u how much i appreciate u all in my life.. now im tellin u.. i am thankful how each n every person that has come along my path in life helped me in some way or other.. i probably am the person i m todae because of u all.. esp my family.. if u all ever see this.. which is probably never.. I LOVE U ALL!!
hangin out at sy's place is like the new thing for us now.. haha.. love her sofa.. but seein her tired so easily nowadaes maybe we shld cut down goin to her place in case we mess it up.. well but if some pple can be as considerate as us.. it will be much appreciated by sy i guess.. but well well.. we all noe...
gonna be in the office without anne this whole week.. hope i dun die of stress..
anywae.. pls tag my tagboard... it's DEAD!
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the unpredictability of life... things happen all the time.. n it's true that everyone lives n dies.. however.. when an accident happens.. dreams r shattered n lifes are disrupted..
alex.. i hope u get well soon.. pls be strong for ur family n all ur friends.. esp ur gf who witnessed the whole accident.. she muz be torn..
accidents happen in many different ways.. some are real tragic.. while some just throws a person off balance.. to my dearest friend.. as everyone keeps tellin u how happy u shld be.. it seems like deep down u never reallie thought u were livin in bliss.. though we noe u are probably goin thru a rough patch now.. we never reallie tot u were that unhappy..
words r easy to roll off the tongue.. i can tell u a million things that u shld be doin.. but i can nv understand how u feel because i do not stand in ur position.. all of us reallie hope that we can help u along the way.. but u must let us noe how.. at this moment.. u just need to noe that all of us are rite beside u.. or at least i am.. seeing u upset is the last thing we ever wanted..
regrets.. like i told u.. is something everyone has.. for one.. i very much regretted not goin to a uni.. although im leadin a comfortable live now.. i still think i mite be able to do better with a degree.. it's not like i cant do a degree now.. it's just that i cant commit myself to do it.. tt is probably one of my bigger regrets.. n there is obviously somethin i can do abt it.. but im lettin myself live with this regret by not actin on it.. in ur case.. i believe u can definitely work somethin out too.. unless u want to live with regrets ur whole life like me...
numerous thoughts are probably goin thru ur brain rite now.. but u have to noe for sure the answers to some qns.. do u ever regret the beginnin of everything? i hope the answer is no.. remember how u once told me that u can see a life n a future together? wad happened to all that? no doubt that everything has been brought forward.. but is that the reason to sway ur belief? the answers all lie with u..
if at any point in time u decide that u need a breather.. im here k.. n i hope u already noe tt... rite now.. u probably just need to sort out some of ur tots.. n maybe it's just ur preggy hormones actin up again..
dun strain urself too much.. =) we love u loads!
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False Beliefs About Love i do think this is an article that many of us shld give it some tot.. =)
Article credit to 'Eugene Loh, A Slice of Life, 938LIVE, a station of MediaCorp Radio'.
In the last programme, we talked about how commonly-held false beliefs in love fool us into thinking that in order to win in the mating game, one has to be good-looking, rich, popular or clever. In this programme, let's go into the many other false beliefs about love that bring us much insecurity, discontentment, loneliness, and heartache.
First, the belief that "I'm not good enough to be loved." Here, our low sense of self-worth makes us behave in two possible ways - firstly, it can make us settle for something that we're not passionate about, simply because we think there is nothing better for us out there. It can also cause us to accept mistreatment and abuse from our partners.
And second, this can cause us to wreck perfectly tenable relationships through our insecurity, over-sensitiveness and jealousy. We literally chase our lovers away because we feel we're not good enough for them.
Next, the belief that "I'm not going to be able to get over an ex-partner". Now I'm not underestimating the pain of a breakup, but people who indulge this belief usually focus on the past instead of looking to the future. They replay good times, convinced that they have lost the love of their lives and they will never find happiness again. So they board up their hearts, spend their days reminiscing and moping, and get into all sorts of addictions just to artificially feel better. Again, this is "playing the victim", placing the responsibility for the pain on your ex and the past, while not reaching out for happiness yourself. This sort of protracted grieving also elicits sympathy from friends and relatives and may convince some of them that since you're hurting so much for so long, then you must've been damaged pretty bad. This kind of behaviour can become almost impossible to stop.
Next is the belief that "I will not be happy, I will not be success until I find the love of my life". If you believe this, you're ignoring the other joys of life like family, friends, nature, and pursuing your passions and ambitions. You are not a "half" of a whole, doomed to drift around broken and incomplete until you find your other half. You are a whole and full person in your own right. Besides, if you believe that you have to be in a relationship to be considered a success, it's likely you'll slide into casual relationships without careful thought or genuine emotion.
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9:29 AM
huikie made this video for siuyuin after the housewarming...
this is sooooooooooooooo nice.. do take a look..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D2hSVtvQP4s
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anyway.. todae is my parent's weddin anniversary.. happy 32nd anniversary to daddy n mummy! had a bbq todae.. n had a little choya to drink.. surprisingly.. it tastes very good.. n food todae was good too.. n i only ate half a hot dog! compared to the many many the last time round at east coast.. so please stop callin me hot dog!!
ah.. so hot now.. time to go shower!
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lastly.. the nail spa is opening on good fridae n they are offering a 20% of all products n services till end april.. location in bishan.. do come give us ur support!! do call or msm me for details!
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